I'm Too Busy To Be In a Relationship

I'm Too Busy To Be In a Relationship

How many times have we heard those words? I've been getting a lot of response from my videos. Many people men and women alike are telling me the same story. That the relationship was perfect, they spent a lot time together, finished each other sentences and then something changed almost overnight? Now the counterpart is saying it moved to fast and they really don't have the time to be in a relationship right now.

Let me tell you what they really saying: They aren't feeling you!! I don't say this to be harsh, because you can take control of this situation, if you first know what's going on. We all have time FOR, what we want to make time FOR. So why the sudden change you may ask?

For men it could be the love dial is turned too high. We all have Love Dials, meaning how much we are in to each other. If the love dial for a man is higher than a womens, she is turned off. No matter how many women say I want my man to be more into me....it's not in their nature. Many are turned off and they don't know why. Think about it, have you ever known a girl to just go out with a jerk, who doesn't treat her like you used too. You wonder..."man what does she see in him," or why is she staying. He acts as though he could take her or leave her. No I'm not saying to be THAT GUY, no way! But I am saying for you to have a little pride and self confidence in who you are. She wants to be proud of you being her MAN, not her puppy that follows her around blindly and.


For women... If he pulls away, let him. I know when you're in Love is so hard to do. We as men are funny creatures though. We expect you to be upset, we expect you to cry, and when you don't it hurts our ego's. Don't sit around waiting on us. Go out, have a good time, and YES accept other dates. Don't accept his calls! We hate the thought of someone else being with you...in more ways than one. When your man asks you back, don't jump at the opportunity. Make him work for it, hey he left you.

I hope this helps some of you...
Please comment and because it always helps others...

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Jaydeman